In closing…

Yes, what a way to start a blog post and a new way of life! But...as we close out the Summer, I’d like to share some Lady-Like thoughts with you all. Well, actually one Lady-Like thought train of thought for this blog. I was actually going to post about fashion, but as usual, I side-tracked myself into another topic all together. To be a ditz! I promise to blog about fashion shortly.

Like the leaves soon to fall from the trees, so too are the last vestiges of my supposed and remnant masculinity.  My efforts to pursue a more feminine appearance and way of life are stronger than ever and will continue to strengthen as the Seasons change. As seasons change, so too does my lifestyle.

In keeping with a shedding of old ways, I summarily, entirely reject, renounce and oppose dating anyone that does not see, acknowledge and ultimately accept me as a feminine person…a Transgender Woman. You may already know, but in case you don’t, I have a dating profile up as a totally out, open and proud Transgender Woman. If every single woman in the state of Connecticut has to know I am Transgender, then so be it. That’s what I want. I’m even thinking of handing out cards!

The fact is, there is no reason to hide who I am…I will not do that again…and frankly with the amount of women’s clothing and accessories I’ve amassed, it’s also a physical impossibility. So it is, I will continue to openly communicate and display that I am a Transgender Woman, providing necessary descriptions if need be, to whomever might ask. I will continue to be clear in describing who I am now and what I will become. It is with great pride that I am openly and routinely expressing that a future and romantic prospect will need to not only accept that I live as a woman, but embrace this fact. In the end, if nobody takes the bait and sweeps me off my heels, I will always have my shoe collection! J

On this note, things are actually not going that poorly. No, not every single gorgeous woman with beautiful hair, great make up and awesome taste in clothing, is beating down my door to meet me, but I am getting a reasonable amount of interest, curiosity, kudos for what I do and potential for at least friendship, maybe more. In fact, some of the twists that my so-called dating has taken on is pretty interesting if not a little bit exciting. So here’s to prancing onward. And oh, of course I will soon share those intricate details!

                                                                                              So who am I ‘after’?

Very simply, I am 100% open to dating either a Cis gender Woman or a Transwoman. Each has its own appeal to me and I look forward to being a realm where I can say I am openly and regularly dating both varieties of beautiful human being! There are truly so many positives to going ‘both ways’ in this that I cannot make up my mind. When I sit down and think about it, ‘cause that’s what I do, there are so many elements of each that I can identify with. I guess in a few years, I’ll have made my mind up…but until then, here’s to happy dating!